{"id":837,"date":"2013-02-22T18:32:18","date_gmt":"2013-02-23T01:32:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/silverladder.com\/blog\/?p=837"},"modified":"2013-02-22T18:32:18","modified_gmt":"2013-02-23T01:32:18","slug":"this-is-why-i-do-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/silverladder.com\/blog\/?p=837","title":{"rendered":"This Is Why I Do It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><P>&nbsp;<\/P><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been a rough week, for a number of reasons that I won&#8217;t get into. Let&#8217;s just say the last few days felt like I ordered the #3 combo meal from the drive-through at McSuck. For those not in the know, the #3 is the one that comes with a large side of everything going wrong at once. But I digress&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Today, I delivered a substance abuse presentation to a group of 200 7th and 8th graders at an elementary school. The presentation went very well, but this was a tough group. This was easily the toughest crowd I&#8217;ve had yet. As middle school kids can tend to do right before 3 P.M. on a Friday, they got a bit restless toward the end of my presentation. Therefore, the Q&#038;A session following my presentation was the shortest one yet.<\/p>\n<p>When it was all said and done, I was particularly run down. I&#8217;m still fighting off the worst illness I&#8217;ve had since having pneumonia in January of 2012. I sat on the edge of the stage wondering if what I said had any effect. As the kids filed out, one of them walked up to me.<\/p>\n<p>He leaned over toward me and said something quietly. Amid the noise and chaos of hundreds of students leaving an auditorium, it was really hard to understand what he said. I asked him to repeat himself. He leaned closer and said, &#8220;I&#8217;m addicted to drugs. I need help.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I spoke with him for a couple minutes and encouraged him to talk with his school counselor to get the help he needs. He was hesitant, so I talked with him a bit longer and encouraged him some more. Just then, another kid came up. The first kid pointed toward him and said, &#8220;He&#8217;s having trouble too.&#8221; I looked at the second kid and he nodded in affirmation, adding, &#8220;I get high every day.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>After a few minutes of talking with them and encouraging them, I got them to agree to talk to their counselor. We walked over to her and I told her, &#8220;These guys have some concerns they need to talk to you about. Will you set up a time with them to do that?&#8221; She immediately agreed, and thanked me a few times. I shook both of the students&#8217; hands and told them, &#8220;This is a really good choice. I wish that when I was your age I had the intelligence and the guts to speak up like you just did. This was a brave thing to do. I have a lot of respect for both of you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>As they were walking off, one of them turned around and said, &#8220;I have a lot of respect for you too.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>What an incredibly humbling and fulfilling day. I am truly grateful.<\/p>\n<p>This is why I do it.<\/p>\n<p><P>&nbsp;<\/P><\/p>\n<p><P>&nbsp;<\/P><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; It&#8217;s been a rough week, for a number of reasons that I won&#8217;t get into. 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